If you are worried that your spouse might be cheating on you, I want to show you an easy way to find out the truth.
Being suspicious that your spouse or partner is being unfaithful can be extremely hard to take – you owe it to yourself to find out if they are being faithful to you.
This method has three steps all of which require a little bit of "detective" work. Do not worry though – it's incredibly easy.
Step # 1 – Are they cheating?
The first step is the trickiest because it requires you to be a little bit sneaky.
You need to get a hold of your spouse's cell phone for about 15-20 minutes. You have to pick a time where you do not run the risk of having them walk in on you.
A good time is when they have just jumped in the shower or when they have gone to the store or gym without their phone.
When you have their phone, you are going to look at their own "call history". Get a pen and paper and write down each and every phone number that shows up on both the incoming and outgoing call lists.
If there are phone numbers you recognize you can leave them off your list. Just make sure to take note of any number you are not familiar with.
Once you are done, put the phone back where it came from and move on to the second step.
Step # 2 – Are they cheating?
Now that you have your list of phone numbers, it's time to find out exactly who your spouse has been talking to. This is when you get put on your detective hat and find out some key information you need.
You can find out a lot of information about someone with nothing but their phone number. This includes their full name, address, location details and even background information.
There are companies that pay good money to have access to all phone records (including unlisted and cell phone numbers) and then compile databases of this information. All you do is type in the phone number and the information is displayed on your computer screen.
These companies charge a fee for using their service, but it is not expensive. For this task you want to find a company that charges a flat one-time fee for unlimited searches in their database. You will only be billed once and can then run searches on as many numbers as you want. Since your list will have quite a few phone numbers you do not want to have to pay for each individual search.
This type of search is known as a "reverse phone lookup". You can try a free sample search at http://www.easyreversephonelookup.com . It's impressive to see all the information you can find out about someone with only their phone number.
Go through your list and conduct a search for each phone number you have written down. As you do this, write down the information you find out for each one. This will give you the names of everyone your spouse has talked to (along with other details).
Step # 3 – Are they cheating?
Now that you have your list of who your spouse has been talking to, it's time to look them over and see if anything suspicious jumps out at you.
Often times people will suspect that their spouse is cheating with someone in particular. If you are in this boat, does the person you suspect show up on your list? Or how the other names? Anything look "Fishy" to you?
You will be able to instantly detect if something out of the ordinary is happening by having this completed list. Knowing exactly who your spouse is talking to will make it clear either or not they are being unfaithful to you.
If you suspect that your spouse is cheating, follow the above steps to get a quick answer. It's an easy way to find out if you are being treated with the respect you deserve.